Showing posts with label Ceremony. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ceremony. Show all posts

08 July 2009

The Wedding Day

I can't believe I'm married. We've been planning this wedding for 18 months, and it felt like it would never arrive. But it came and went, and Hubby and I (because I can now actually refer to him as that), have had three blissful days away on our mini honeymoon.

But first; the wedding...

Where do I start? Our wedding day was incredible.

Hubby and I woke up at 7:00am to spend a little time together before the chaos of the day began. But it didn’t really work out like that, because we’d had a late night before, so we just pressed the snooze button until 8:00am came around.

By 9:00am I was at the hair salon, but they were running late, and didn’t see me until 9:40am. My dad, brother and one of the photographers picked me up, and would you believe it was raining!! We’d had the most fantastic weather in the two weeks running up to the wedding, so this wasn’t expected.

But anyway, I got back to the house, and my mum helped me into my dress. We didn’t have time for any pre-ceremony champagne, because the car (a cream and red Morris Minor) had arrived.

Hubby and I weren’t worried about seeing one another before the wedding, because we’re not very traditional. But because I was running late, there was barely any time for him to see me anyway, because as I came downstairs, he was getting into his car and leaving anyway.

It was still raining a little as my dad and I got into the back of the Morris Minor. One of the bridesmaids (Hubby’s cousin, but like a sister to him) came with us, and the other would meet us at the register office.

We arrived at the register office and the rain was pouring down on us. The driver of the car was prepared with an umbrella though and so I pulled up my dress (in a rather unladylike manner), and made it inside.


I was almost thrust into a meeting with the registrar while Hubby was still in there, but luckily he didn’t see me, and I was sent into a different room to wait. I was in there with Hubby’s aunt, who by this point was all emotional. She told me how happy she was that I was marrying Hubby, and that she couldn’t have imagined a nicer person for him to marry

I had my meeting with the registrar soon after, and then it was time to get married. I entered with my dad, to silence, which was weird, but there was a problem with the CDs we had made, so there was no music. But it didn’t matter, because there was Hubby, and he was wide-eyed as he saw me coming. He later said that my dress was similar to what he expected, but so much nicer than he ever thought possible.

We got married, and we had photos outside on the steps as the weather was now clearing. We had three photographers snapping away; my uncle, a friend I studied photography with at college, and an old workmate that went off to study photography at uni. It allowed them to capture the day from their own perspective, and give us such a varied collection of photographs.


After the group photos, the guests then disappeared off to town for a few hours, while Hubby and I got into the Morris Minor and headed back to the house with a glass of champagne each. We had some photos taken outside the house with the car, and our photographers navigated the traffic, as we were in the middle of the road at this point.


The car left, and this is when I realised that I had dirt all over my train! I was upset about it for a few moments, but the photographer assured me that he could photoshop it to look clean, and that it would be dirty later on anyway.

We headed off to our photo venue shortly afterwards, and got some absolutely incredible shots:
















We also stopped for ice cream, and I tried very hard (and managed) not to spill it on my dress:


And this is Hubby trying (and failing) to bustle me while I held my ice cream and bouquet:


More updates later...

19 May 2009

Ceremony Music

We have made our final selection, and sent our choices to the register office for approval. Having a civil ceremony means that we can't use any music with religious connotations, and it's been hard trying to find a selection that both works well together, as well as remaining neutral in regards to religion. So here are our final choices. I've added links to the music on You Tube in case you want to hear it:

Guests' Arrival
* Mozart - Eine Kleine Nachtmusik
* Beethoven - Ode to Joy
* Handel - Arrival of the Queen of Sheba
* Vivaldi - Four Seasons, Spring
* Handel - Harp Concerto in B Flat

Bride's Entrance
* Pachelbel - Canon in D

Signing the Register
* Pachelbel - Canon in D
* Bach - Air on a G-String

Exit
* Craig Armstrong - PM's Love Theme

Wedding Vows

Unfortunately, you can only write your own vows in the UK if you are having a non-legal ceremony, as well as a legal ceremony. Some churches let you, but we're marrying at a register office, so we only have a choice of three vow types, which are more or less the same, just differing lengths - we went for the longest. Although I don't have the exact wording to hand right now, it's more or less:

"I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment, why I _______ may not be joined in matrimony to _______.

I call upon these persons here present to witness that I _______ do take thee _______ to be my lawful wedded husband/wife."


18 May 2009

Ceremony Venue

This is where we will be getting married. It's only small inside, so we will be having family and a couple of friends only. Thankfully (in my opinion) they've re-decorated since these photos were taken. The room is now more subtle in tones, and the "altar" as such is now in front of the stained glass window, instead of at the other end, as shown below.